Finding out you’re pregnant when you weren’t planning to be can feel scary, overwhelming, and sometimes even lonely. These emotions are normal, and giving yourself time to understand your choices before making any decisions is essential.
At Alpha House, we provide a safe, caring place to talk about your options.
Abortion Is Not the Only Option
Abortion is the only option that ends a pregnancy. Both the abortion pill and surgical abortion options come with several risks. Before moving forward, it’s important to learn about how abortion works, the side effects and risks, and how it may affect you physically and emotionally.
You also have other choices—parenting and adoption—that may feel overwhelming right now, but could be worth considering as you think about your future.
What to Know About Abortion Risks
Whether through the abortion drug or a surgical procedure, abortion carries potential risks. Some of these may include:
- Heavy bleeding
- Severe cramping and pain
- Infections that could become serious if untreated
- Possible emotional responses such as anxiety, depression, or grief
Because abortion is a significant decision, gathering as much information as you can beforehand is an important step.
Parenting Support Is Available
Parenting may not have been in your plans right now, and might feel impossible because of that, especially if you are worried about finances, relationships, or support. However, there are resources designed to help parents succeed, such as:
- Free baby supplies like diapers, formula, and clothing
- Parenting education and mentoring
- Assistance with housing or financial needs
With the proper support, many women find parenting more manageable than they first thought.
Adoption: A Choice with Flexibility
If you feel parenting isn’t the right path for you right now, adoption provides another option. You can make choices about your child’s future and how involved you want to be. Adoption plans can include:
- Open adoption, where you maintain ongoing contact
- Semi-open adoption, with limited communication
- Closed adoption, with no contact after placement
Adoption allows you to remain in control of your decision while creating a plan that fits your circumstances.
You Don’t Have to Decide Alone
At Alpha House, we understand how difficult this moment can feel. We offer no-cost mentoring services where you can ask questions, discuss your options, and take the time to decide what’s best for you.
Contact us today to learn more about your choices and the free, confidential services available to you.